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Post by chosenone151 on Jan 6, 2019 23:36:58 GMT
Because it's nice to be considerate to people? It wasn't asking a lot; even to not use the term at all. Just not towards her in particular. I respect that. If it's that upsetting, I won't, by my own choice. Once again, on-topic art.
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Post by Nesh on Jan 7, 2019 0:43:59 GMT
Fine you can feed into it all you like, I won't because, she had to make it public it feels very wrong to me. She didn't have to say anything about her disability in a public post. To me it reads like trying to garner sympathy points; there was no reason to say anything more than it was a nice picture and not ramble on about how a simple phrase triggered her. Since she brought into the thread I felt justified in responding in thread. That said you are posting nice art, to add something on topic.
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Post by chosenone151 on Jan 7, 2019 2:08:09 GMT
I'm just gonna drop the conversation.
Have More Lopika! Their domestic lives would probably be adorable.
...I should make a thread in the art section. Though I wonder if it'd be off-topic on a pearl forum?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 7, 2019 10:27:01 GMT
Nice picture chosen.
....I feel bad now. I read some more of Nesh's posts. He was not putting me down for having autism, and i reported him...(he actually has it himself, and he was triggered by my acting how i did...)
I'm not mature enough to use this forum (or most forums in general). I may want to stay away from here for awhile....
This isn't a sympathy post, btw. I am simply posting to say, i did something awful (i didn't read all his other posts before i reported him.....due to my stupid fear of reading more 'drama', i started the very thing i actually really dislike >_<). I mean hopefully no one would misunderstand me. People, please don't judge me OR Nesh. Judging is wrong, and it could make the pearl community toxic if you start doing it. We got to keep showing we're better than the amour shippers are.
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Post by Nesh on Jan 8, 2019 6:43:11 GMT
Nice picture chosen. ....I feel bad now. I read some more of Nesh's posts. He was not putting me down for having autism, and i reported him...(he actually has it himself, and he was triggered by my acting how i did...) I'm not mature enough to use this forum (or most forums in general). I may want to stay away from here for awhile.... This isn't a sympathy post, btw. I am simply posting to say, i did something awful (i didn't read all his other posts before i reported him.....due to my stupid fear of reading more 'drama', i started the very thing i actually really dislike >_<). I mean hopefully no one would misunderstand me. People, please don't judge me OR Nesh. Judging is wrong, and it could make the pearl community toxic if you start doing it. We got to keep showing we're better than the amour shippers are. I don't have autism, but I do have a disability, and while it may be purely physical in nature, I''ve had to work very hard to be treated the same as everyone else, so when I see someone using their disability to get people to alter behavior in some way it bothers me, because it's things like this that create the climate I've had to fight against my whole life. I admit I overreacted.
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Post by chosenone151 on May 6, 2019 4:37:31 GMT
Another! I've got more. I still hold that the height difference wouldn't stop them from being happy, together!
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